As a social being and a human, comes to life the most complicated thing ever. Relationship between two persons, be it friendship, romantic relationship, or even professional relationship between coleague and such.
So in a way, whether we want it or not, nurture always has a part in forming who we are, and more importantly, who we will be, based on the people you keep around you.
That’s why sometimes, even though we went through hell while our heart broke at some point of the relationship, what with the emotional burden of being a good friend, or a good partner, or a good daughter/son, or just a good employee, if we look back at everything that we’ve done up until this point, the only thing we can do is being grateful.
Last weekend, I went on a short break and had the privilege to go out with two different groups of friends. One is from my childhood, one is from my recent years while living abroad in England.
That’s when I realised how funny life is sometimes. It’s funny how both groups have roles in shaping who I am today, but both groups are so different I wonder how is it that my brain is able to determine what I want to be and who I am from all the interaction.
So if you think I’m babbling, I actually am babbling. Not very cool of me, eh? To put it simply, friendship is weird. You got this person who give you their most important thing, trust, but we got to be angry with each other, and insult each other, and at the end of the day, we’ll make up and say I love you too, and stuff. But then the cycle will repeat over and over again.
So yeah, I think friendship is definitely one of the weirdest thing on Earth.
But huh, everyone need friends in their life. Who don’t?
Well, anyway, despite the fact that it took lots of me to go out and interact (yes, I am a loner by birth and by right), it’s always fun to see what other people is doing with their life. Some have achieved their dreams, some are still searching for the right one, some fell for the wrong one, some are still not sure as of what to do, but hey, that’s the beauty of it.
You’ve got this people you know and come to love, and they all are so different, you get a glimpse of how great statistical probabiltity and nurture vs nature that are at works in this world.
And for those of you who thought
“hey, you’re way too quiet!” I say, wait till you talk to me alone, because everybody has weaknesses, and one of the worst of mine is I can’t really interact in group settings. It messes me up because my mind kept wandering around trying to calculate and analyse things that aren’t supposed to be calculated or analysed. In simple words, I’m crazy.
And that’s all for today’s update my friend, I hope you enjoyed my babbling towards the ridiculousness that is our world, and the beauty that is our connection towards each other.